Dear Kiki, I discovered my sexuality in college, and later came to terms with my gender identity. I feel pretty comfortable in both, but I’ll admit that I’m a pretty “boring” queer person. I’m not really that kinky, I’ve only had a few relationships and hookups in the past, and I’m now in a monogamous, […]
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Dear Kiki: My online dating profile is a mess
Dear Kiki,There are numerous walls I meet when trying to date online. Writing a decent bio is my #1 problem. Also equally tough is explaining the uncomfortable years of not understanding our American social etiquette. What seems like anxiety to a possible flame is confusion I possess for what’s going on.What would be the best […]
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Dear Kiki: What should I do about my debilitating fear of abandonment?
Dear Kiki, What should I do about my extreme and debilitating fear of abandonment? Indubitably Debilitated Dear Debilitated, Therapy. And if that doesn’t work, try a different kind of therapy. And if that doesn’t work, try a different therapist. There are ways to work past this fear, but they’ll be unique and specific to you. […]
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Dear Kiki: Would it be weird to take a job working closely with my girlfriend’s ex?
Dear Kiki,Hi, I was looking for a little advice on a situation: I’ve been working in Cedar Rapids for a year now and am actually transferring jobs and recently got a job offer for a small construction company with about four people. Come to find out one of these four people is actually my girlfriend’s […]
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Dear Kiki: Do I have a right to be hurt that my ex used our relationship for comedy fodder?
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, Is there a social “statute of limitations” on when you can use an old relationship for comedy fodder? I happened to hear that […]
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Dear Kiki: I’d like to have some anonymous sex — and stay safe
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I love the idea of adventurous sex with strangers or near-strangers. Anonymous hookup type stuff. On the other hand, I’m afraid I’ll end […]
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Dear Kiki: How do I find the desire (and courage) to date?
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Hi Kiki, I’m a 25 year old female and have never been in a relationship. Honestly, I don’t know if I have ever wanted to […]
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Dear Kiki: After 20 years of marriage, is this the sign I should leave?
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. My wife and I have been married for 20 years, her at 20 and me at 23. We have had an OK marriage, the first […]
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Dear Kiki: I prefer my wife’s post-baby bod, but she doesn’t
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, My wife put on a few pounds after having our kid and I’ve realized that I find her incredibly attractive now. […]
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Dear Kiki: I can’t stop following breadcrumbs
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, The guy I like is breadcrumbing me. I can’t help but fall for it every time. How do I stop? –Little […]
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Dear Kiki: Am I too much?
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, Is it better to be fully yourself, or a restrained version of yourself, if you are “a lot” to make people […]
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Dear Kiki: I think my family found my strap-on
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I recently had to live with some family members due to being between jobs and finally got a place of my […]
