Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, Is there a social “statute of limitations” on when you can use an old relationship for comedy fodder? I happened to hear that […]
Sex Advice
Dear Kiki: I’d like to have some anonymous sex — and stay safe
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I love the idea of adventurous sex with strangers or near-strangers. Anonymous hookup type stuff. On the other hand, I’m afraid I’ll end […]
Dear Kiki: How do I find the desire (and courage) to date?
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Hi Kiki, I’m a 25 year old female and have never been in a relationship. Honestly, I don’t know if I have ever wanted to […]
Dear Kiki: After 20 years of marriage, is this the sign I should leave?
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. My wife and I have been married for 20 years, her at 20 and me at 23. We have had an OK marriage, the first […]
Dear Kiki: I love falling in love
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I want to fall in love forever. I never want to stop experiencing the rush of new love, and why should I? —Falling […]
Dear Kiki: I prefer my wife’s post-baby bod, but she doesn’t
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, My wife put on a few pounds after having our kid and I’ve realized that I find her incredibly attractive now. […]
Dear Kiki: I can’t stop following breadcrumbs
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, The guy I like is breadcrumbing me. I can’t help but fall for it every time. How do I stop? –Little […]
Dear Kiki: I think my family found my strap-on
Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I recently had to live with some family members due to being between jobs and finally got a place of my […]
Dear Kiki: Is polyamory worth the trouble?
Questions about love, sex or relationship can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, Is polyamory worth the trouble? Lay it out for us. Signed, Polycurioush Dear Polycurioush, Well, that all depends. Are you polyamorous? […]
Revival’s vibrators are a bestseller — and spreading good vibes about sexual wellness
I can’t be the only Iowan who has found herself opening an incognito tab in a dispiriting search for a decent vibrator. Driving across the state on I-80, you’re bound to see a few billboards for adult stores selling plasticky sex toys out of warehouses with truck-friendly parking lots. Chains like Romantix, Spencer’s and Lion’s […]
Dear Kiki: How do I tell a customer ‘TMI’?
Questions about love, sex or relationship can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I have a client who is getting a little … too personal with her stories. She works in a location that […]
Dear Kiki: Does having sex on the first date prevent future romance?
Questions about love, sex or relationship can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, Do you think having sex with a man on the first date/encounter with him ruins the chances of a future relationship […]




