Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I’m a teenage girl who is living with her single mom. My parents went through a […]
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Dear Kiki: Can I have a real relationship with a guy twice my age?
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, Hey! So I met a guy twice my age (in my 20s, he’s in his 40s) […]
Dear Kiki: I cannot tolerate my husband’s nighttime farts
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, My husband has started to fart in his sleep every night, something that hasn’t bothered me […]
Dear Kiki: My ex-wife is pregnant. Should I congratulate her?
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I separated from my ex-wife about a year ago and she’s now pregnant by the guy […]
Dear Kiki: How do I set boundaries with my kid?
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I’m in a blended family and as a result, the kids steer clear of our bedroom […]
Dear Kiki: Can we get frisky outdoors?
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, The summer has arrived and I’m feelin’ the call of nature — to get frisky! I’m […]
Dear Kiki: Is there a more subtle way to tell a guy, ‘I’m not trying to f— you’?
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Hi Kiki, Is there a more subtle way to tell a guy, “I’m not trying to fuck you” […]
Dear Kiki: So you’re thinking of popping your lockdown bubble
Kiki gets it. Spring has sprung after a long, lonely winter and you, reader, are tired and antsy. You’re vaxxed and ready to show the world your shine. But you’re also confused! You feel like someone with anxiety who just dropped a dose of ecstasy: truly desperate to interact but lacking the necessary skills. Rest […]
Dear Kiki: I’m a UI freshman and dating is complicated
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Hello, My name is Jay, I am a freshman at the University of Iowa. There was a girl […]
Dear Kiki: I’m so lonely
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I’ve been jerking off alone for years anyway, so COVID isn’t harming my love life. Nevertheless, […]
Trans, polysaturated: Mitchell Grauberger’s gender journey and polyamorous love story
“The line between friendship versus romantic attraction is very strange for me,” 24-year-old Mitchell Grauberger lamented. “I enjoy having, like, platonic cuddles with my friends. So where’s this line? Am I romantically attracted to you? Or am I just a friend?” Last February, Mitch managed to maneuver this gray area with a friend he’d met […]
Dear Kiki: My partner won’t stop texting flirtatiously with her ex-fiancée. What can I do?
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, Should I be okay with my significant other personal messaging and having phone conversations with her […]




