Questions about love, sex or relationships can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I have a friend group from college that have kept in touch over the years through a group text. Friend A […]
Love advice
Dear Kiki: Is polyamory worth the trouble?
Questions about love, sex or relationship can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, Is polyamory worth the trouble? Lay it out for us. Signed, Polycurioush Dear Polycurioush, Well, that all depends. Are you polyamorous? […]
Thoughts on love as you scroll through social media today
Americans consume fairy tales from birth. Storytelling is ingrained in our DNA. So it’s no surprise we want Valentine’s Day to be full of rich chocolate, roses and showy displays of affection. Materialism is ingrained in us, too. Take a peek at any social media feed on Feb. 14 and Feb. 15, and you’ll find […]
Dear Kiki: I broke up with my best friend over letter
Questions about love, sex or relationship can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I recently ended an emotionally abusive relationship with my best friend of one year. We met when we were both very […]
Dear Kiki: I keep getting lost in daydreams
Dear Kiki, I can’t stop escaping into a fantasy land. I’m pretty happy and don’t think there’s anything I really need or want to escape from (though there has been stuff in the past and I think I started doing this as a child for pretty understandable reasons), but the temptation to enter into a […]
Dear Kiki: Does having sex on the first date prevent future romance?
Questions about love, sex or relationship can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, Do you think having sex with a man on the first date/encounter with him ruins the chances of a future relationship […]
Dear Kiki: Any advice for a social outcast looking for connection?
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. I am a man in my mid 20’s. The metro area I live in has around 130,000 people […]
Dear Kiki: I love my kids, but struggle with the parts of them that remind me of their father
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I love my children with all my being, I love who they are and I will […]
Dear Kiki: I’m kinky and my husband’s vanilla. Can we strike a satisfying balance?
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I consider myself a kinky person. I looove exploring all possibilities during sex, using whatever devices, […]
Dear Kiki: My mom used to be my best friend. Now she’s just mean.
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I’m a teenage girl who is living with her single mom. My parents went through a […]
Dear Kiki: Can I have a real relationship with a guy twice my age?
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, Hey! So I met a guy twice my age (in my 20s, he’s in his 40s) […]
Dear Kiki: I cannot tolerate my husband’s nighttime farts
Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, My husband has started to fart in his sleep every night, something that hasn’t bothered me […]

