Dear Kiki, My married friend is getting separated and he’s already ready to get back out there. I haven’t been out there since before he got married. This makes me […]
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Dear Kiki: I’m new in town. Where can I meet a sexy guy?
Dear Kiki, I’m new in town… how can I meet a sexy guy over 50 to hang out with?! Iowan00b Dear Iowan00b, Welcome! I hope you’re settling in well to […]
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Dear Kiki: Should I warn my ex’s current partner that she’s cheating?
Dear Kiki, A few weeks ago I found out through Instagram reels of all things and confirmed through a friend that my now ex-girlfriend cheated on her current partner with […]
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Dear Kiki: Is a coffee date low effort?
Dear Kiki, I had a friend repost a story of someone saying that getting a coffee as a first date is low effort. That it is lazy for a person […]
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Dear Kiki: I don’t jive with casual intimacy — but I don’t want to be a prude (or alone)
Dear Kiki, Where do I begin? I do not jive with casual intimacy… and I feel like a prude for it. As a young woman I thought if I could […]
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Dear Kiki: I’m a boring monogamist. Does that make me less queer?
Dear Kiki, Polyamory has taken the lesbian and queer community by storm. Every person I talk to wants me to read The Ethical Slut or Polysecure and be on board […]
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Dear Kiki: I’m finally focusing on my own needs, but it may be hurting my relationships
Dear Kiki, I’m having a hard time prioritizing others at this stage in my life and I’m not sure whether it’s OK to keep centralizing my own needs, or if […]
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Dear Kiki: How do you seduce men over 60 years old?
Submit your question to Kiki, LV’s sex and relationship advice columnist. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, How do […]
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Dear Kiki: When Meat Loaf said he won’t do ‘that,’ what was he referring to?
Submit your question to Kiki, LV’s sex and relationship advice columnist. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Flashback sequence! Recently, Kiki […]
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Dear Kiki: How do I tell my loved ones I’m just not interested in sex and romance?
Submit your question to Kiki, LV’s sex and relationship advice columnist. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, Help! I […]
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Dear Kiki: I know it’s superficial, but I wish she had better style
Submit your question to Kiki, LV’s sex and relationship advice columnist. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I’m attracted […]
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How to use a pencil to unlock more pleasure
I had a surprisingly sensual and pleasurable experience with a pencil once. I’ve worked with somatic sex educators for a number of years as a way to reclaim a more […]
