Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Hello, My name is Jay, I am a freshman at the University of Iowa. There was a girl […]
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Dear Kiki: I miss having night sex

Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I miss having night sex. The kids are always home and are old enough that they […]
Dear Kiki: My partner won’t stop texting flirtatiously with her ex-fiancée. What can I do?

Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, Should I be okay with my significant other personal messaging and having phone conversations with her […]
Dear Kiki: Does long-distance work or are we doomed?

Dear Kiki, I’m planning a big move, and the guy I’ve recently fallen head over heels with is also planning one. The catch is, it’s not to the same city. We’ll be 12 hours apart, and it’s COVID. Is long-distance a viable starting point, or are we doomed? —Miles Apart Dear Miles, Here’s something you […]
Dear Kiki: COVID-19 has halted my sex life. Help!

Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Hi, My girlfriend and I are 60+ years old. We are both concerned about getting the COVID virus. […]
Dear Kiki: My partner doesn’t respect my alone time

Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I’m protective of my alone time for a host of reasons and have gotten backlash for […]
Dear Kiki: My sister accused me of being a ‘bully’ and cut me out of her life. What do I tell my kids?

Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, About 18 months ago, my sister (who is 33) stopped speaking to me (38, F), claiming […]
Dear Kiki: Am I a jerk for not joining my boyfriend at the protests?

Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I’m a white female, and my boyfriend is black. This is my first time in an […]
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Dear Kiki: I can’t convince my partner or his kids to wear masks

Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I coexist in a divorced step-family and we have different approaches to coronavirus. There’s nothing I […]
Dear Kiki: My partner split up with me in quarantine

Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Hi Kiki, I, too, am a writer for LV Mag and I find myself a little lost during […]
Dear Kiki: I’m twice my crush’s age. Do I have a chance in hell?

Questions about love and sex in the Iowa City-Cedar Rapids area can be submitted to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com, or anonymously using this form. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, I am a single man; I’m 50 years old. I’m not a typical 50-year-old — I’m […]