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Dear Kiki: Conquering role-play stage fright

Dear Kiki, I like including role-play scenarios in my sex life. My problem is that even if it’s something that’s been previously discussed with my partner, when I make the first move––say the first line, put on an outfit––I am overcome with the same embarrassment of performance that, say, watching open mics or bad theater […]

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Dear Kiki: When great sexual chemistry meets poor communication

Questions about love and sex in the city of Iowa City can be sent to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, My long-term partner and I recently opened up our relationship, though we’re taking it slow. Currently, I’m seeing this person who’s […]

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Dear Kiki: How do I talk to my boyfriend about pegging?

Questions about love and sex in the city of Iowa City can be sent to dearkiki@littlevillagemag.com. Questions may be edited for clarity and length, and may appear either in print or online. Dear Kiki, How do I talk my boyfriend into trying pegging? Our relationship so far has been “heteronormative,” if you will. Signed, Persuasive […]

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Dear Kiki: Your guide to rocking a sex-positive Halloween costume without freezing off your jibbly bits

Dear Kiki, I want to have a super sex-positive Halloween, but October is cold in Iowa City and skimpier costumes make me worry about frost-bitten labia. Can you help me think of a hot costume that’ll keep me warm? Signed, Chilly Dear Kittycat, I have some thoughts, fragments arising from the depths. First, consider the […]

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